I went to training on Disability, Gender and development in Bangkok on March 8- 21, 2010. The training was held in APCD (Asia-Pacific Development Center on Disability) building, it was supported by APCD and JICA. I was representing GEMPITA (as SEHJIRA’s partner) and also as a sign language interpreter for my friend Angkie Yudistia from SEHJIRA Foundation.

The participants of the training were representative of self-help organizations of persons with disabilities from countries of South East Asia, including Republic of Indonesia, Malaysia, the union of Myanmar, the Republic of the Philippines, The Socialist of Vietnam, and The Kingdom of Thailand. The objective of this training is to empower persons with disabilities as agents of change and to promote an inclusive, barrier-free and rights based society for all. From Indonesia, Sehjira Foundation and HWPCI Ternate-Maluku were selected as representatives from Indonesia.

Since the first day of the training, I was so amazed with the condition of the building which is being used to conduct the trainings and also as our accommodation. It is so accessible in every aspects for all types of disability, kindly refer to the pictures as I am so speechless to describe it in words.

They were so many positive things that I got during the training. One of it is how we perceive disability itself. There are two different points of views or models: Medical model and Social Model. Medical model sees that disability is your family and your own personal problem; it means that as a person with disability (PWD) you have to be treated as a patient, go to rehabilitation center. And if you are not succeeded to get a “cure”, it will be means that you are dysfunction as a person.

On the contrary, social model sees disability as social problem. It becomes a social problems because it is related to accessibility. Accessibility creates opportunities that enable all persons to have access to enhance their life with their own capacity. Accessibility in all areas included but not limited to access of information, access of employment, access to equal education, access to participate in development, etc. The main objective of social model is to create inclusive right based society without any discrimination.

I can’t deny that my early concern on disability issue is because of my late-Hearing disability-brother influence but now I realize that disability movement is supposed to be our movement not only for PWDs but also for non-PWDs.

In my opinion, every one of us has a great risk to become PWDs or our parents will become PWDs in the future. If we see wheelchair user in malls, we will see that the majority is elderly people. If it wasn’t because of disability movement, I am sure, many buildings and malls wouldn’t be as accessible as it is right now.   It is only a small example, how our PWDs friends act help us and our beloved ones.

So I would like to say thank you and give a high appreciation to our PWDs friends who are willing to fight in reducing barrier and promote equal access in society.

Other than that, my PWDs Friends personally inspired me, especially in time management and for not be ignorance to others. How wisely they manage their time in their daily life, although they have so many roles in life, which also important to be fulfilled, but for them it doesn’t means that they have to neglected their role in the society.

Like many of us, they have to become a good employee, a brilliant student, a caring mother, etc.  They realize these roles, give their best, and still they are trying to give positive contribution to human life. They become an agent of changes and role models in community, as their heritage for better future not only for themselves but others.

Like Angkie Yudistia(Hearing disability) an employee of an International company in Indonesia, a National Model, a Master candidate, and also a Public Relation of Sehjira Foundation.

Like Rahmitha Harahap,  (Hearing disability), Lecturer in a private university in Indonesia, a caring mother from a very cute daughter named Nabila, and also a president of Sehjira Foundation.

Like Nandar, (Cerebral palsy), my friend from Myanmar, an Entrepreneur, a Doctoral Candidate majoring in math and also a member of a board management of her self help group organization

Like Kyu-kyu, (movement disability), my Myanmar friend, a board member of her organization and also an employee who has to struggle to get into a crowded bus every time she goes to her office.

Like Hamida, (Movement disability), my friend from Malaysia, who is a government employee for department of social welfare, a wonderful mother for 2 incredible children.

Like Pharadee, (Hearing disability), my funny friend from Thailand, a sweet mother, a food entrepreneur, and also a president of deaf club in Thailand.

Like Ms Huong (Visual Disabilty), my clever friend from Hanoi association for visual disability in Vietnam, who will be graduated soon from her bachelor degree program, have a great passion to become a teacher and I am sure she will be a very good teacher in the near future.

Like Jaka (Visual disability), my informal teacher and resources person who has a great voice when singing, who is also active in many organizations inside and outside Indonesia.  Going east and going west but going home is always the best?  Am I correct Bro?

and Like Mom Geraldine Ruiz (Movement disability), a wonderful and smart resource person from Philippine, who willingly gave up her career in international advertising firm and chooses to enlighten people around the world. “It will be lonely up there if we fight by our own” i totally agree with you Mom.

And like more than one hundred other PWDs, who I can’t mention one by one..

With all their incredible role in family and society

I am begin to wondering and ask question to myself..

Hey you, who are you?

What have you done so far for others?

Dedicated : as Birthday gift For Patria “Budhi” Nababan-My major influencer and role model.

Teman-teman dan Sahabat GEMPITA, Tahun 2009 telah berganti dan sepanjang tahun tersebut telah terselenggara beberapa kegiatan yang kita jalani bersama sebagai GEMPITA dan sebagai bagian dari masyarakat Indonesia.

Kegiatan GEMPITA pada tahun 2009 di mulai dengan menjadi bagian di Pelatihan Kemandirian Remaja Tuna Rungu ke -4, 18-20 Juli 2009,  yang terselenggara berkat kerjasama dengan teman-teman dari Yayasan Sehjira ( Yayasan Keluarga Tuna Rungu Sehat Jiwa Raga).

Pada awal Ramadhan, GEMPITA mengorganisir santunan  kepada seorang Bapak Haji di daerah Bekasi. Pak Haji berprofesi sebagai kusir kereta namun kebaikan hatinya membuatnya tidak tega membiarkan orang terlantar dan orang gila di Jalanan. Hingga saat ini bapak tersebut telah memberikan sandang, pangan dan papan yang layak bagi kurang lebih 20 orang yang terganggu pikirannya. Santunan yang berhasil dikumpulkan adalah berupa Beberapa kantong pakaian layak pakai dan sembako.

Setelah itu masih di bulan Ramadhan, GEMPITA mengadakan 2 acara yang diselenggarakan dalam waktu berdekatan. Acara Pertama adalah acara buka puasa bersama dengan anak-anak jalanan di kawasan pasar Senen dengan bekerjasama dengan teman-teman dari KOPS (Komunitas Planet Senen).

Acara Kedua sebagai penutup dari rangkaian kegiatan pada bulan Ramadhan, Gempita yang bertindak sebagai fasilitator, membagikan Zakat bagi mereka yang membutuhkan, pada kesempatan itu kami memberikan santunan uang tunai kepada 10 orang Manula yang kebanyakan dari mereka adalah Janda dan kepada 1 orang anak yatim piatu di kawasan Cengkareng Jakarta Barat. Pemilihan orang yang pantas diberikan santunan dilakukan oleh tim dari GEMPITA dan Kader Kesehatan di wilayah tersebut.

Teman-teman, tulisan ini dimaksudkan sebagai laporan akhir tahun bagi semua teman-teman dan sahabat GEMPITA yang telah membantu secara moril maupun material sehingga acara-acara tersebut dapat terselenggara.  Semoga acara-acara tersebut memberikan manfaat bagi mereka yang membutuhkan perhatian kita dan semoga membawa manfaat juga bagi kita sebagai generasi muda Indonesia.

Secara khusus kami  menyampaikan terimakasih untuk teman-teman di ASEC (Asean Secretary); PT Cipta TPI (TPI) ; KOTRA (Korea Trade Center); PT.DTZ Utama Propertindo; MPI (Medco Power Indonesia);  Vitruvian Pilates; KUDOS Creative Activities, Perum Pegadaian Ciputat,  dan segenap donatur-donatur pribadi yang telah memberikan kepercayaannya kepada kami.

We are just a drop of water in the endless sea but we shouldn’t give up

Itu kata-kata Bunda Theresia yang saya lihat dari film autobiographynya. Ketika itu, Beliau masih dalam tahap awal pergerakan dengan Missionaries of Charity -nya. Keyakinan itu jugalah yang kemudian membawanya mendapatkan nobel perdamaian dan mengantarnya memberikan kontribusi nyata untuk kebaikan dunia.

Sekali lagi Teman-teman..

Terimakasih dan Mari tetap peduli…

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